MV Times: Camp by the Sea

Depending on their age, most kids know something about death. They’ve seen it on a TV show, or perhaps they’ve lost a family pet. But when they lose a parent, grandparent, or friend, it hits differently.

An article from the Child Mind Institute reports that kids often respond differently to death than adults. “They may go from crying to playing. That’s normal. Playing is a way of coping with their feelings. It’s also normal for kids to get angry, to feel sad, get anxious, and also to act younger than they are. For example, potty-trained kids may have accidents, or kids might slip into baby talk.” The article also points out that it’s important to help children express their feelings, and remind them that those feelings are normal.

In 2024, Hospice and Palliative Care of Martha’s Vineyard (HPCMV) held their first grief camp to help kids and their families not only share their feelings about loss in a safe and confidential space, but to have some fun as well. This year’s free camp will take place on Sunday, October 19, from 9 am to 5 pm, at Slough Farm.